Hiding Isn’t Holiness: Finding Yourself Again in Christ
"What kind of deal is it to get everything you want but lose yourself? What could you ever trade your soul for?" -Matt 16:26 The new year has begun! And with it, a flurry of resolutions geared towards self-improvement. As Christian women, we might feel a pull to optimize our faith lives—to become "that Christian girl." There's nothing wrong with discipline—especially in prayer, Scripture reading, and community. But there's also a danger in chas ing such an ideal—you lose your
Jan 10
How to Burn it All Down And Start Over (Again): Embracing Endings
Women crave safety . As the more vulnerable sex, we’re neurologically wired to detect and respond to threats more intensely than men ( Research finds sex-based differences in how brains handle threats,eurekalert ) . In general, we’re less likely to take risks ( Gender Differences in Risk Assessment: Why do Women Take Fewer Risks than Men?, DOAJ ) . Because we’re designed to value security, it can be hard to leave social networks, relationships, and jobs even if we’re unfulfi
Dec 18, 2025
When Nothing Works Out: Finding Purpose in the Middle of the Mess
Have you ever felt like you want to pursue your dreams but keep hitting closed doors ? Maybe you want a relationship or a job or to live somewhere else, but no matter how hard you try, life is simply not allowing it to happen. I’ve been there. After college, I couldn’t find a job—something that older generations had promised me was guaranteed. I wanted to move out from my parents’ place. I wanted to date. I wanted to contribute my gifts to the world. I wanted to start my li
Dec 14, 2025
